No matter what kind of date you are going on it is normal to be nervous. On your first date with a shemale it can be even more nerve racking. You are doing something new with someone new. All firsts have some level of anxiety with them. When it comes to sissy adults, you don't have to be nervous meeting them. Not being nervous is easier said than done right? Take a look at these ten ways to overcome first shemale dates.

Realize They Are Just As Nervous

The first thing that you should do when you feel nervous about shemale dating or while at a transfender meet is realize that you probably aren't alone. There is a good chance that the sissy adult that you are with is feeling nervous too. Nerves are a common thing to feel before any date.

By starting to understand that your date is nervous too, you will realize that you are not alone. Going into anything with someone else is much better than going into it alone. Don't harp on how nervous you are but it doesn't hurt to mention it to your partner. Getting it off your chest can break the ice, make you feel more comfortable, and give your partner a chance to agree with you.

Practice Breathing Exercises

Breathing exercises are taught to people from all walks of life as a method to calm down. They can be a great way to reduce nerves and you can even use them while on the date itself. One of the most basic breathing exercises that you can practice is simply taking long, deep breathes for at least a minute. Breathe in for at least a few seconds and out for at least a few seconds.

A number of other breathing exercises can be found on the internet to learn from. Yoga, martial arts, and meditation classes can also help you to learn new breathing exercises while helping to develop body confidence.

Meet Somewhere You Feel Safe

Meeting sissy adults somewhere you have never been can be quite uncomfortable. It just adds another thing that you haven't done before to the date. To reduce the amount of nerves you feel you can try to schedule the date somewhere you feel comfortable. Pick a restaurant you have been to before, or a cafe near where you live.

Keep in mind the feelings of your date too. It might be best to find a place where you both feel comfortable for your first meeting. This may be hard if you live in a different part of town but even a familiar chain restaurant can be comforting or a setting that you have been in a lot before.

While meeting somewhere you feel safe is great, you do not want to meet somewhere overly personal on a first shemale date. That means do not meet at your house or apartment. First meetings should always be in a public place. This helps to promote good safety but also makes everyone involved feel more comfortable. Imagine having to worry about what someone is thinking of your place or having someone in your personal space while you are also nervous about meeting them for the first time.

Embrace Bad Dates

Bad dates happen, it is something that we need to embrace when we enter the dating world. Ask any sissy adult that you meet, they will likely have a bad date story. A good way to reduce your nerves is to embrace the idea that bad dates happen and there isn't anything we can do to completely eliminate the chance of a date going bad. What we can do though is use the bad date as a learning experience, we can learn what not to do in the future or what would work better on our next date.

Having bad date stories can also serve for interesting conversations on dates later down the road. Especially when there is something comical or unique about the story.

Pamper Yourself Beforehand

On a date you have to focus on your partner and that can be hard. Before the date take some time to focus on yourself and get pampered. It may help to get a haircut, go to the spa, get a massage, or do something else that you find relaxing and rewarding.

Time spent being pampered doesn't just relax your nerves, it also helps to boost self-confidence. A simple haircut can do wonders if that is something you enjoy.

It may be tempting to spend the time before the date with friends but that can be taxing. Most people find it better to spend some time by themselves, this gives them the ability to truly relax and feel pampered. You also don't have to keep up a conversation. That isn't for everyone though so consider what works best for you before making a decision.

Listen To Calming Music

We all have music that we find calming. Before your transgender meet you should spend the time to listen to music that you find calming. Music isn't just something we enjoy, it has an effect on our brains, causing them to produce chemicals.

Classical music is one of the most well-known (and scientifically proven) calming musics. Not everyone likes classical music but it is worth trying to listen to it before your date to see if it is able to calm you. Give it a fair chance and listen to a few songs to see how it feels.

Workout Beforehand (and Shower)

Working out actually emits chemicals in the body and brain that help your body to relax. That is one of the reasons working out can actually help you sleep. Taking the time for a quick workout before meeting sissy adults can help to reduce your nerves. Just make sure to shower before the meetup.

For those who don't belong to a gym or don't like hitting the gym you can go on a walk, jog, or run for 30 or more minutes. The idea is that you get your heart rate pumping and your body engaged. This is what leads to positive outcomes from workouts.

Learn to Laugh At Yourself

One of the hardest things to do in life is learn to laugh at yourself but it is one of the best things you can do. When you are able to laugh at your own mistakes you don't have to worry. Mistakes become moments that are funny stories for later on in life. Stories that you and the sissy adults you meet can share. If you choose to.

Learning to laugh at yourself starts with realizing that mistakes happen. We all make them and there is no level of planning that will prevent every mistake. Another thing that can help you learn to laugh at yourself is to realize that the other person will probably respect you greatly for the ability to laugh at your own mistakes.

Wear Comfortable Clothes

When we are physically comfortable we tend to have less nerves. The reverse is too true. If you feel uncomfortable in dressy clothes, for example, chances are you are going to be more nervous when shemale dating. In that case you might consider wearing nice clothes but sacrifice some formality for comfort. Don't dress down too much though. You still want to be presentable and dress appropriate for where the date is.

Don't Drink Beforehand

A lot of people think that drinking reduces your nerves and in some ways it does. That doesn't mean that you should drink before a transgender meet just to get over your nervousness. Doing this will reduce the experience, you may not even remember parts of it. It is also likely that you won't be yourself if you have had enough alcohol to dull your nerves.

A single glass of alcohol at the beginning of the date, drank with your date, is okay because you are sharing it. But don't over indulge, this will just make the experience worse.

With these 10 tips you should be ready for shemale dating. They are designed to keep your nerves at ease and make the experience as enjoyable as possible. With that being said, everyone has to find there own methods for relaxing. There may be something that is not on this list that you find helps before a date, if so, let us know in the comments below.